Wednesday 19 June 2019

Selway of Somerset - part 1

Puzzle pieces and solutions come in all shapes and sizes.  James Selway, my great-great-great-great-uncle, was baptised, married and buried in the same church - St Mary Magdalene, Chewton Mendip, Somerset, England.  All of his brothers and sisters were baptised in the same church across a period of more than 20 years.

Their father before them, also James Selway, was baptised (1755) and buried (1816) in the same village, although he had married Mary Porch (1781) in her parish church of St Peter North Wootton nearly 10 miles away.  These were my great-great-great-great-grandparents.

James Selway, son of James and Mary, was married in 1829 to Eliza Maidment and they were recorded in the 1841 census with seven children living at Double House, East End (note: map drawn in 1884).  An eighth child was born the following year.  Then the whole of this family disappeared from Chewton Mendip until 26 years later when James was buried there in 1868, noted as age 78.  I will not list the unsuccessful approaches which I tried to find them in the intervening years ...

Then I came across the Find A Grave memorial entry for Eliza.  The record matches her first name, maiden name and married surname, as well as mentioning Chewton Mendip.  It told me that she died only two years after her husband James but more than 4,500 miles away!

Wonderfully, that database includes a biography for Eliza which says, "James and daughter, Mary, went back to England to settle an estate when James became sick and died in Somersetshire."  In fact many people have recorded information about this pioneer family, which included another child who was born in the USA.  The sources are rather varied, such as:
So it seems that James and Eliza emigrated to the USA in 1846 and about 18 years later Eliza stayed there when her husband returned to their starting point, never to see each other again.  James was indeed buried in the place where he was born and baptised, after a round trip of nearly 10,000 miles.